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11 small steps for making this world a better place to live. If we all follow it and spread these with love to all around us. • Being kind and loving to all the good souls we come across. Helping a person, treating with affection at their times of need And being grateful, instead of ignoring or taking for granted, when being helped by someone. If you help someone and they say you thanks, tell them to help another person instead of thanking and let this continue. • Knowing yourself and improving your thought processes. Unless you don't understand yourself, you won't be able to know what you want, what you don't and end up in confusion. Try to take some me-time and introspect into your life, your thoughts everyday, your decisions and realise how amazing person you're and whatever you do for others, and if you realise something you did is wrong. Never blame yourself or feel that you're a bad person, forgive yourself and try to correct the mistake. Instead of self blaming for hurting someone, mend the hearts you broke with kindness. Forgiveness and Apology are signs that you're a great soul. Whenever making a big decision try to analyse what could be the outcome and difference between different choices. Choose the path you find right. If you cannot decide, don't worry, just share with your friend, family or even us. We all are there to help you if you ever need. Seeking help isn't a sign of weakness, but it's a sign of wisdom. • Understanding each other is vital for every relation and for peace and happiness. Accept others the way they're, never force them to do something which isn't possible for them or not in their interest. If someone does something wrong, you may complain, but if they react to something you said or did. Don't call them bad or oversensitive. First think of what you said from their perspective. See or ask why they felt so hurt by you. Often in relations and friendship, we misjudge a person and trigger trauma not knowing it might be hurtful and when they complain we get angry over them. No no, first hear them out and see things from their perspective, know them more before judging anything. When someone's sad, they usually don't need long lectures and words like "Don't be sad. Chill be happy, don't think about it", these words often make a person feel more worse as Sadness and Hurtings aren't in our own control, it's a feeling. It takes time to heal, not our own choice. If they want sometime, give them space. When they tell you something about their feelings, do not make it feel invalid. Support and respect them instead of being against when they need to be comforted. Everyone has a different life, and thus different needs and choices. We cannot expect people to be perfect and like us, if we ourselves are imperfect. The biggest mistake people make during sad times of others, is to worsen the mood of a person at the name of care. When you care, do it with affection like a friend not like an owner, make sure you never say anything which can feel harsh, triggering, irritating, forceful, disrespectful toward their opinions or irrelevant to them. No one is oversensitive, everyone's just surviving through a lot of pain and problems. Claiming their problems as small or calling them weak, idiotic, or lazy is a choice of only stupid people. Understand a person the way you want them to understand you. • Follow your heart, let your brain decide if it's right. It's your choice to decide whom you keep in your life. Just coz you're lonely, being with toxic people, seeking bodily pleasure and bad companionship always ruins your trust and heart someday. Be with the right ones who give you back equally, don't get stuck with wrong people who don't care about u unless they need u. Being happy alone is better than being broken hundred times by the same person. If someone says you're wrong doesn't means you're, it's just they have a vision defect in their mentality. Love yourself they way you're. Express yourself and be free from anyone's opinion about you, do what you want :) • Plant a few trees in your garden or plant pots at your home and care for them. Feed birds with a feeder or keep water for them during summers, if possible sometimes try to take out some time from your week and devote a bit to feeding something to stray animals and beggars. It doesn't takes big funds to do this, but only a big heart. Never abuse any animals or plants, we're all living beings needing each other to survive and this world isn't just for humans. Also you can support reliable NGOs (Ecosia browser is one trusted ngo browser which uses its funds to plant trees across the world) or spread awareness about importance of nature, social, mental health and environmental issues, etc. • Accepting yourself the way you're. Not letting others' judgement rule out your originality. Not being a follower of world, rather being a believer of your own dreams. Changing your aims and life for the sake of others can never make you feel satisfied coz their priorities and opinions will keep changing. You're not a puppet of someone else. And everyone has faults in themselves, you need not be like someone. The person whom you think is greater than you in some aspects might not be as good as you in some other aspects. Everyone is unique just like you're, no one's the best in this world. We can't chase perfection, but we can start to love our imperfections. • Parenting is an important thing in our lives. Being very restrictive is as bad as letting your children do anything even if it's wrong. Understanding their needs is more important than claiming them by your own opinion without listening to them. Parents are responsible for a child's mental growth. Never compare with others or pick up flaws and make them feel weak, this always demotivates a person. Accept the way they're, no one's perfect in world. Let them choose their dream and life, but be a guide, protect and care for them all the way, while making sure they don't fall in the traps of addiction. What matters more isn't money, power or scores, but how happy and nice person your child is. • Learning self defence techniques and promoting it is a really important thing these days. It will not only make you feel more confident but also help you save yourself and others if you ever were in trouble. Do add this video to your watch later and watch after reading this part of whenever you're free. It can save life, just a few simple easy to understand tricks for everyone. Share the video if possible. • Never hate a person or assume anything before knowing them neither bully them. If you bully someone for being fat and laughing on them today, maybe tomorrow you could be at their place. We're humans, we're not made to destroy someone's day rather to improve each other and live with unity. In quarells and fight the main problem for disunity is either lack of efforts from a side/both side or its a communication gap. Communicating with the person is very important. If you had a quarrel with a close one, making walls against that person, changing matters and ignoring the problem can never be a solution if you really need each other. Give yourself sometime alone and talk everything out fully once you're ready and listen to each other. If one side is not willing at all and constantly hurting you without thinking of you, it's better to cut off connections from such people. Sometimes big problems have small simple solutions which can't be seen when we're angry. Let's pledge to understand each other and seek peace instead of war or revenge :) • Love is the feeling of heaven and hell together. The reason why people stopped believing on it isn't fate or any laws of world. But because most people in the world have stopped being loving and caring genuinely, and instead they hurt each other for their selfish needs. You're mortal, we're so small in this world. Why break each other or cheat on our lover for money lust or anything ? One day we all shall die but the seeds of our love will forever bloom. Love needs selflessness and not selfishness. Many people these days have been misguided and now they ask for paper proofs of love instead of genuine feelings. Know that, if you truly love someone, you will always be interested to know more about them, you will be happier around them when they're happy. You will not judge them or force anything neither will you leave them for someone else. A true love is incomplete without efforts. If you love someone truly, do not hide it worried about the fate. If it's meant, it will surely happen but only if you take ahead some step. Some people these days destroy great love stories in life by judging each other, cheating on or trusting in rumours against each other. Such things can never form in true love, true love is free from disruptions in your aim. When the world will be against this love, you will still love them no matter what. Love is in the togetherness of the soul, not in own needs. Fake love happens when you care about just yourself always in a relationship. Loving requires passion and patience, and being loved by a pure heart, you're blessed. I think sometimes people get blind and throw their lovers away in misunderstandings without giving them a chance to say anything. That's what happened to me, i truly loved someone but wasn't heard, she believed in her fake friends more than her own love, it doesn't only destroys one but the another too... That's were the problem comes, so never take a big decision in anger or suspicions. Assumptions aren't always true, and you can't love someone unless you're free of suspicions which will always lead to misunderstandings if untold. If you're unhappy with something, do tell them freely and see if they're willing to adjust with you? Love is a sacrifice and it's a duty. Never make someone dream of something unless you're sure of keeping your promises. It hurts a lot when broken, a bleeding scar that never seems to go from their hearts. Love like the breeze, not a storm which wrecks someone's home. • Health is wealth. Even mental health is very important though people ignore it a lot and consider it small. Don't worry even if you're sad today, maybe something better is up ahead the stairs. I know your life has been hurting you a lot and you're suffering too much and tired now. But we're all together in this fight, just dealing with different demons *hugs you*. Sometimes we face so much stress and suffering, judgements and misunderstanding, that we tend to become detached from social activities and expend a lot of energy that we can't do anything well or stay absentminded. It's not wrong to stay alone sometimes when it's needed, neither blame yourself for suffering it. If no one's there, comfort yourself by doing what you like to. If you're suffering through a lot of mental health issues, do not ignore and consult someone. You can also talk with us if it's not possible for you to consult anyone. Don't worry, we won't judge you here, you can trust us. There are various mental health free helpline. Some verified ones are: https://icallhelpline.org/ Ph: 9152987821 (UNFPA and iCALL-TISS) https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/ Also you can find a lot of information on mental health, checkup and suggestions from these site: https://thedepressionproject.com/ https://screening.mhanational.org/screening-tools/ Thanks a lot! Wishing you a happier life ahead. If you can, please do share this to as many people as you can if you need the text, we can send a .txt file in pm to help you copy directly. Sharing is caring, and the more it's shared and followed the more better the world would be :) Take care of yourself and your family Stay safe, hydrated and healthy ♥️ Lots of love, Poets Team